Jacob Bigus, LMSW • Kansas • Trauma‑informed • LGBTQIA+ affirming • Kink & poly‑affirming
Therapy for the beautifully different.
“Healing is the process of reclaiming our freedom: the freedom to feel, to love, to live fully, unburdened by what once held us captive.”
Life can present challenges that feel overwhelming, and even the strongest individuals sometimes need support to navigate through them. Whatever challenges or issues you are facing, there is hope for a brighter tomorrow.
Conditions & Concerns Addressed in Therapy
Therapy offers space to explore life’s challenges, deepen understanding, and cultivate authentic connection. Jacob works with adults, teens, and couples experiencing a wide range of emotional, relational, and identity-based concerns.
Emotional Well-Being
Anxiety, excessive worry, or racing thoughts
Depression or persistent sadness
Emotional overwhelm and difficulty regulating moods
Grief, loss, and life transitions
Feelings of emptiness, loneliness, or isolation
Burnout, fatigue, or loss of purpose
Stress & Life Transitions
Career or academic stress and uncertainty
Divorce, separation, or major life change
Difficulty adjusting to new roles or environments
Perfectionism, over-functioning, or chronic pressure
Feeling “stuck” or disconnected from purpose
Relationships & Connection
Communication and conflict resolution
Rebuilding trust or navigating betrayal
Emotional intimacy and vulnerability
Navigating different needs or attachment styles
Boundary setting and relational repair
Sexuality, Intimacy & Relationship Diversity
Exploring sexual identity or sexual expression
Kink-affirming therapy (consent, communication, and embodiment)
Support for polyamory, open relationships, and ethical non-monogamy
Healing shame or fear related to sexuality
Improving emotional and physical intimacy
Navigating desire differences or sexual disconnection
Integration of spirituality, sexuality, and authenticity
Identity & Self-Exploration
LGBTQIA+ identity exploration and affirmation
Gender identity, expression, and transition support
Self-esteem, self-worth, and authenticity
Existential or spiritual exploration
Aligning with personal values and life meaning
Trauma & Inner Healing
Childhood, relational, or complex trauma (C-PTSD)
Emotional neglect and attachment wounds
Recovery from abuse (emotional, physical, or sexual)
Triggers, hypervigilance, or numbing responses
Reconnecting with safety, trust, and the body
Neurodivergence & Regulation
ADHD, autism spectrum, and executive-functioning support
Emotional dysregulation and overwhelm
Routine changes, rigidity, or sensory sensitivities
Mindfulness and grounding for neurodivergent nervous systems
Seen yourself in there? → Let’s talk
About Jacob Bigus
I’m Jacob: therapist, musician, and meaning‑maker. I help people who feel different build lives that feel like home in their own skin.